How To Turn Your AWAKENING From Zero To Hero?
Do you find yourself concerned with the future: to-do lists and worries?
How about being stuck in the past: regrets and mistakes you wish you could change? If we spend most of our time on the future or past, we completely miss the present.
Someone we care about approaches us to talk about something important to them; could be their day or a challenge they're going through. We had a busy tiring day and either listen half-heartedly without really paying the attention they deserve, or tell them we are tired and we'll listen later but never get to it.
This could be an esteemed coworker, a dear friend, or even a member of our beloved family. We say our family is important to us, but how is that reflected in our daily lives?
How we talk to ourselves, how we speak to others, how we take care of our body and the beliefs we hold are part of our programming.
They are made up of past experiences, and pieces of information we’ve learned. They have been on repeat for a long time, to the point where they become automated responses, with little to no thought behind them. We spend roughly around 40% of our lives on autopilot.
Though from a biological standpoint we are saving energy by automating this process, the downside is we get caught in beliefs and behaviors that no longer serve any purpose for us and we are holding on to them out of sheer habit.
For example, a coworker approaches us for some feedback on a project. Generally, we tend to be very defensive about feedback, because we believe our work is an extension of us. If our automated response is to cross our arms, listen but not hear and refuse constructive criticism we lose the opportunity to improve our work.
On a more personal note, if our spouse is scolding us about forgetting to buy milk yet when our automated response is getting upset and spouting a list of all the hard work we do ends with both of you feeling resentful, unheard, and unappreciated then we lose the opportunity to connect with our spouse.
There comes a time in our life when we need to pay attention to what beliefs and behaviors are set on autopilot and revise if these automated responses are bringing us closer or further away from the life we want to lead.
An awakening - a process to turn ignorance to awareness
The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you do.
The first step to transforming our lives is to start paying attention to the beliefs we have that don't serve us. Then, it’s time for decluttering our minds. We need to clear out what is not working in our lives, to make room for supporting beliefs and actions that lead us closer to who we want to be.
Small and big actions that support who we want to be will build confidence and support our authentic selves to come forward.
In short, awakening our consciousness to bring ourselves to the present is the biggest gift we can give ourselves and to those around us and this is the way we can turn our awakening from zero to hero.
Tiara Hoquee
Psychologist and Emotional Intelligence Coach
The 10-Stages Journey of Life Transformation is about identifying what is not working in our lives and making changes to better both ourselves and our relationships. Click HERE for details.
Focusing on the Positives
Did you know that we have about 50,000 thoughts on a daily basis and around 80% of those thoughts are negative, according to research conducted by the National Science Foundation?
This happens because of the way that our brains are wired. From prehistoric times, when we were cave people, our brains would focus on threats and dangers, such as a lion hiding in the bushes or a bird flying out of the sky to eat our food. We programmed ourselves to look out for the negative to be able to ensure the safety of us and those around us.
We no longer have lions waiting in the bushes to attack us, yet our brains are still programmed to focus on things that can possibly cause us harm. The main problem is that in the world we live in now instead of tigers and birds we have deadlines, and people who cut the queue or bump into us while looking at
their phones. All of these are annoying but definitely not life-threatening.
When we get home and our partner asks about our day a lot of the time it’s about everything that went wrong: that annoying co-worker who won’t shut up, that you spilled your coffee over your new white shirt, and how the waiter got your order wrong at lunch. We do this despite positive events happening even more frequently than negative ones.
It’s like we have a pair of glasses that make us blind to the good things that happen around us. From small things like enjoying your morning coffee and the sun shining on your face to the bigger things like being healthy, a good review at work, and having friends and family you love surround you.
If you do a presentation at work and most of your co-workers come up to you afterward to tell you what a great job you did. Yet, there is one person that mentions something you did wrong. The chances are you focus on the one “bad” review. That’s the glasses in action making you blind to all the
positives.
This also translates into our personal relationships where we tend to focus on what are partners get wrong or are mistaken instead of bringing up all the things they do right.
The good news is the brain can be reprogrammed to focus on the positive at work and in our personal lives. It all starts with creating awareness of ourselves and those around us.
Begin with paying attention and catching yourself when you notice you are focusing on the negative. Once you start, you can then replace the negative thought with a positive one.
Let’s say you are at home and you notice your partner hasn’t washed the dishes. They did go to the grocery store and restocked the fridge and remember to get those snacks they love. Instead of nagging about the dishes give thanks for what they did well.
Take off the negativity glasses and look around at all the positive things going on around you. Reprogram your brain and you’ll notice the more you focus on the positive, the more your brain will look for even more positives because not only is it rewarding but it also decreases stress and improves your mood.
Tiara Hoquee
Psychologist and Emotional Intelligence Coach
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All businesses face challenges, whether it is dealing with the changing economy, finding and hiring the right employees, or increased competition in the market. Family-owned businesses are not immune to these challenges.
There is also a unique set of challenges that family-owned businesses have to face as a result of the nature of their business structure. It is important to understand what these hurdles are so that if you find yourself facing these issues, you can not only identify them, but you can proactively develop ways to overcome them.
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What is a Family Health Check?
It an invaluable tool for the owners of family businesses to know where are the loopholes, where improvements can be made and how to make them. Our professionals will work with you to examine key management life cycle and build sustainability into your business.
In your eyes, the business is almost perfect, but to some one else, there are enough minor imperfections to give it a mark of 6/10 at best.
A Family Business Health Check provides your business with a detailed assessment of the entire core operations of the business. Our professionals will work with you in a variety of areas to ensure that your business is consistently performing to its highest potential. The assessment tools we use help to build sustainability into your business and ensure that it is functioning properly on a regular basis.
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The Check takes a bird's-eye view of your family business, brings clarity to its strengths and weaknesses, and gives you the tools and support to overcome challenges—so you can lead your family business with confidence.
Our team of experts believes that every business owner should be proactive and measure their business's health on a regular basis.
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This program has been designed to address the organization's key priorities, to create an environment where all members of the family are fully integrated into the leadership of the business, and to enable high performance.
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- 6-8 sessions depending on the complexity, each session 3 hours
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Mr. Tommy Chen, Senior Manager of Multi-national Financial Institution. He has been a senior business consultant since 2000.
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Coaching Profile of David Yeh Junior
”When we get egoistic with ourselves, humble ourselves with humanity.“
David is an ardent advocate of positive change, with years of experience applying Life Transformation Strategies. He has made his life purpose to inspire and empower individuals, seeing to it that they find fulfillment in everything they do. His sense of mission stems from the experiences in his life, having overcome hardship and tragedy.
He embodies the core principles that makeup DRI. As the founder and Chief Empowerment Officer (CEO), David plays a key role in DRI, leading its vision, and ensuring that the institute is making an impact. He also serves as an external liaison, working with a number of counselors and life coaches within the region, so as to be a leading driver within the industry.
David received a Bachelor of Business Administration from the University of Southern California and has had extensive experience as an entrepreneur, and in the financial world. He is also qualified by the Strategic Intervention Advance Elite Coach Training and has had a wide range of exposure to handling complicated relationship issues.
In 2021, David is honored to receive the Distinguished Salesperson Award from the Hong Kong Management Association. This award is affiliated with the Sales & Marketing Executives International of the United States. It is always referred to as the Oscars of the sales industry.
The Journey of Life Transformation
It might be the right time for a transformation of consciousness in the year.
During the time of shift, many people are hearing an inner call to STEP into a higher version of who they are.
They are Awakening.
When we awaken, it marks the beginning of a transformative period, a time of unraveling, renewal, and potentially rapid growth in understanding who we are and our purpose, value, and place in our life.
True transformation is a marked change from the status quo. And the way of transformation invites us and all those we serve to commit to living differently—less from the ego and more from the presence, inner being, and our authentic Self.
We all want to have a better way of living. The 10-stages model for recovery and healing has helped people of different ages and genders live healthier, happier, more intimately connected lives. It combines hypnosis, astrology, art therapy, psychology, coaching, meditation, physical exercise, and different healing techniques in one model.
The 10-Stages Journey is about identifying what is not working in our lives and making changes to better both ourselves and our relationships.
The 10-Stages Journey
- Explore Your Self-Potential - The stage helps you to explore your self-awareness, physical body, personality, appearance, personal views on life, self-identity, self-image, early environment, and beginnings; how we initiate, and how we’re impulsive. Your ego, the inner you, your essence, the unchanging part of you – the calm, steady, deep, and lasting force felt within you, enabling you to exert willpower, make decisions and direct all the other parts of your life. It is the start of your portrait. Your fundamental character, your core.
- Your Attitude towards Money and Possessions - The stage shows what you value, your hidden talents, your sense of self-worth, and self-esteem (how you value yourself). It also helps you to explore and change your attitude towards wealth and material possessions, and your potential for accumulating it/them.
- Your Style of Communication - The stage reflects your capacity to collect, sort, and communicate the knowledge you gain through your experiences and your senses. It reflects the way you see, hear, understand, and assimilate information. The positive manifestations include clever speech, eloquence, persuasiveness, success with public speaking, and a sharp, quick mind. The more negative manifestations include restlessness, and a tendency to be critical, sarcastic, argumentative, and sly. It will show your style and preferences for communicating and learning.
- Home and Family: Explore your inner emotional security - The stage helps you to explore your home life, emotions, subconscious, and relationship with your parents. It represents your emotional nature and instinctive reactions – emotional responses based on past experiences and unconscious habit patterns that you have developed. It shows your inner core, which feels hate, jealousy, fear, and has fantasies that you often deny even to yourself. It shows the area of life where you tend to be the most emotional, and where you often experience changing conditions.
- Love and Affection: How you express yourself in personal relationships – The stage helps you to explore your romance, dating, love affairs, sexual relationship style, and your capacity to express affection. It defines the type of people you draw to yourself, based on your social values. It is including what kind of sex appeal you possess, love affairs, and affection. What kind of lovers do you attract? Are you flirtatious? Do you find happiness in your love affairs, or are you often disappointed? How you express yourself in personal relationships, especially in love and marriage.
- Health and physical sickness: how you treat your body - The stage helps you to acquire a wide range of technical skills that enable you to come up with marvelous strategies and inventive solutions for dealing with the increasing pressures that society places on you. This principle of ingenuity lives on in that part of ourselves that ever seeks new ways to solve practical problems and cope with everyday responsibilities.
- Marriage and Relationships: the way you relate to your partner - The stage shows your manner of relating. It also gives clues to issues that arise in your relationships and how you can resolve them.
- Death, transformation, and healing - Those in our lives who are dying, or who have died, teach us about the value of living. They remind us not to take our lives for granted, but to live each moment of life to its fullest, and to remember that our own small lives form a part of a greater whole. You may experience dramatic crises or have to endure terrible suffering, but for the purpose of healing. Death and losses tear down only to transform and regenerate what has been destroyed. This workshop helps you to explore your fear, emotional resistance, and overall transcendence.
- Psychology of success - Explore your ambition, career, authority, hierarchy, sense of duty, discipline, responsibility, and physical and emotional endurance during hardships. Where is the area you have lessons to learn? But this is where your disciplined hard work will lead to genuinely earned, long-lasting success. It gives clues to the kind of work for which you are suited and the kind of career you are likely to pursue.
- From self-realization to liberty – The stage helps you to find your hopes, goals, ambitions, wishes, and humanitarian interests, the unconscious urge to become aware of your true inner individuality. It is your intuition awakening you to a world beyond our social structure. It encourages changes when the usefulness of the old is gone and something newer, something higher and better is ready to take its place. True to yourself.
Program fee
One stage per week, totally 10 weeks
2 hours per stage, totally 20 hours
HK$100,000.-
Since each stage of life has its own unique gift to give to you, we will do whatever we can to support each stage and protect each stage from attempts to suppress its individual contribution to the human life cycle. For supporting each stage of the human life cycle, we will help to ensure that you are given care and helped to blossom to your fullest degree.
Ultimately, a healthy connection with self and others is what it’s all about. Whoever you are, whatever your situation, your life can be better. Much better.
More importantly, the 10 Stages process can help you make that happen.
Our Coach – Ms. Kit Shum
Take a few mins to know more about Kit:
Kit is an empathetic inspirator with years of experience in psychotherapy. Her life goal is to inspire others to find their own life goals, enjoy life, and become the best version of themselves. Her sense of purpose comes from her tragic childhood and experience of life and death crisis.
Kit is studying Master of Psychology and graduated with a Master of Expressive Arts Therapy, Master of Behavioral Health, and Bachelor of Education from the University of Hong Kong. She is a registered art therapist (ANZACATA), hypnotherapist, yoga teacher, and teacher by the Education Bureau. She also holds professional membership in Hong Kong Expressive Arts Therapy Association. She has had extensive experience as a psychotherapist in different organizations such as corporates, non-government organizations, schools, and private clinic catering to clients of different needs such as adults with an emotional disorders, children with special learning needs, and family and relationship problems.
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